Alright, let’s dive into this Venus in the 12th House thing. It’s been a trip, lemme tell ya.
So, first off, I started noticing a pattern. I’ve always been a bit of a loner, right? But I crave connection like crazy. Total contradiction. Then, my friend, who’s way into astrology, was like, “Dude, check your chart. You probably got Venus in the 12th.” I did, and BAM! There it was. Venus, the planet of love and beauty, chilling in the house of secrets, hidden enemies, and self-undoing. Great.
Naturally, I went down the Google rabbit hole. Read all about how it can mean suppressed emotions, hidden love affairs (nope, not me!), and a tendency to idealize relationships. Bingo! Nailed it. I’m a sucker for a good love story, even if it’s all in my head.
Okay, so knowing is half the battle, right? What to DO about it? That’s where the real work began.
- Journaling: I started writing down my feelings. Not just the happy stuff, but the messy, uncomfortable stuff too. Like, why do I always fall for the unavailable types? (Still working on that one…)
- Meditation: This was HUGE. Learning to sit with my emotions, without judging them, was a game changer. I use an app, nothing fancy, just 10 minutes a day of breathing and trying to quiet the monkey mind.
- Creative Expression: I’m not an artist by any means, but I started doodling, writing poetry (bad poetry, but still!), and just generally letting my emotions out in a non-verbal way. It’s like a pressure release valve for all that hidden Venus energy.
- Setting Boundaries: This is the hardest part. Saying “no” to people, even when I really want to say “yes.” It’s about protecting my energy and not getting lost in other people’s needs. Still a work in progress.
Look, I’m not gonna lie, it’s not a quick fix. Some days are better than others. But I’m definitely more aware of my patterns and less likely to get swept away by them. I’m learning to love myself, flaws and all, and to create relationships that are based on reality, not fantasy.
If you’ve got Venus in the 12th, or any other challenging placement, don’t despair! It’s just an invitation to dig a little deeper and uncover your own hidden strengths. It’s a journey, not a destination. And who knows, maybe we’ll find some treasure along the way.
