Okay, so today I’m gonna spill the beans about my Venus in the 4th House experiment. Buckle up, it’s a bit of a ride!
The Setup: So, I’ve been diving deep into astrology lately, and the whole “Venus in the 4th House” thing kept popping up. Basically, it’s supposed to mean you find pleasure and beauty in your home and family life. Sounds nice, right? But my apartment was a disaster zone and my family… well, let’s just say we have our moments.
The Hypothesis: Could I actually create that Venus in the 4th House vibe? Could I manifest some domestic bliss?
The Action Plan: I decided to go all-in. First, the apartment. It needed a serious overhaul. I started with the KonMari method – chucked out anything that didn’t “spark joy.” This took a WEEKEND. Then I actually cleaned. Like, deep cleaned. Scrubbed the floors, dusted everything, the whole nine yards.
The Decor: Next, the decorating. I’m talking about cozy blankets, soft pillows, plants everywhere (fake ones, because I’m a plant murderer). I even bought a diffuser and some essential oils. Lavender, obviously. I wanted to make my apartment a freaking sanctuary.
The Family Factor: This was the tricky part. My family is…loud. Lots of opinions. So, I started small. I initiated a weekly family Zoom call. No pressure, just a chance to chat and catch up. I also started cooking more, trying out new recipes and sharing them with my mom.
The Results: Okay, so the apartment transformation was immediate. Walking into a clean, cozy space did make me feel calmer and happier. I actually started spending more time at home, reading and relaxing. Big win there.
The Family Update: The family thing… that was more of a slow burn. The Zoom calls were awkward at first, but gradually, we started to actually enjoy them. And my mom loved the recipes! We even started swapping cooking tips. Who knew?
The Hiccups: Of course, it wasn’t all sunshine and roses. There were still arguments (because family), and sometimes I just wanted to escape my Pinterest-perfect apartment and binge-watch reality TV. But overall, I felt more connected to my family and more at peace in my home.
The Verdict: So, did I “manifest” Venus in the 4th House? Maybe. Or maybe I just put in the effort to create a more nurturing and enjoyable home environment. Either way, I’m calling it a success. My apartment is less of a disaster and my family is… well, they’re still my family, but we’re communicating better. And that’s a win in my book.
Key Takeaways:
- Cleaning and decluttering makes a HUGE difference.
- Creating a cozy and inviting space is worth the effort.
- Even small gestures can improve family relationships.
That’s my story! Hope it inspires you to create your own little slice of domestic bliss. Later!
