Okay, so I’ve been messing around with this whole “venus conjunct mars” thing in my natal chart, and let me tell you, it’s been a wild ride. I started by, you know, just Googling it like anyone else would. I was curious, I guess, about what it all meant.
I dug into a bunch of websites. I had to get to the bottom of this to find some meaning. I even found a few forums where people were talking about their own experiences. That’s where things got interesting.I read that some are intense, and others are passionate.
My Process
- I pulled up my birth chart on some free * looks very cool.
- I located Venus and Mars. Sure enough, they were, like, right on top of each other.I saw it.
- I started journaling about my relationships. Everything. The good, the bad, the ugly. I wanted to see if I could find any *’s like I am obssessed with it.
- And I will keep watching.
I noticed I kept going back to the same kinds of people, making the same * I realized it. It’s like I’m drawn to this intense energy, even when I know it’s not good for me. Seriously, it’s like a moth to a flame.I always repeat it.

So, I’ve decided I have to make changes. No more toxic relationships! I’m trying to be more aware of my own patterns, my own needs. It’s hard, but I’m working on it. I’m trying to be more mindful, to choose partners who are good for me, not just * I hope I can have a better life.
It’s a work in progress, for sure. I’m still figuring things out, but at least I’m aware of it now. I’m definitely not blaming the planets, but it’s helpful to have a framework for understanding myself, you know? I will try to figure the whole things out.