Okay, so I’ve been diving deep into synastry lately, which is basically comparing two people’s birth charts to see how they vibe together. And let me tell you, the Sun opposite Venus aspect? It’s a thing. I decided to put my own relationship under the microscope.
Getting Started: Chart Time
First, I pulled up both of our birth charts. I’ve used some random website that I found to do that. I entered our birth details – date, time, and place. Boom! Two pretty circle charts appeared, filled with symbols and lines. It was a mess.
Finding the Sun and Venus
Next, I located our Sun signs. I quickly knew the icons on those charts. Then I found our Venus signs, and I found them.
The Opposition: A Tug-of-War?
I checked if our Sun and Venus were in opposite signs. Turns out, and that is a clear case of Sun opposite Venus.
Opposites attract, right? But they can also create some serious tension. It’s like a constant push and pull.
What I Noticed
- Initial Attraction: Yep, definitely felt that. It was like we were drawn to each other, like a magnet kind of thing. We are so different, but that was part of the excitement.
- Different Values?: I started noticing that we sometimes have clashing priorities.
For example, I’m all about cozy nights in, but he’s more of a go-out-and-party kind of guy. I also noticed, that I focus on a relationship, but He thinks that being too needy is a bad thing.
- The Challenge: It’s not always easy. Sometimes, I just want him to chill out with me, and I know he sometimes wishes I was more adventurous. It’s a constant negotiation.
Making it Work
So, what have I learned? Communication is everything. It’s very important to understand that we do things differently.
It’s also about finding the balance.
I’m still figuring this whole Sun opposite Venus thing out, but it’s definitely been an interesting ride. It’s made me think a lot about our relationship dynamics and how we can work together, even with our differences. It’s a work in progress, for sure!
