Okay, so I’ve been digging into this whole astrology thing, and Neptune in the 7th house kept popping up. It sounded kinda intense, so I decided to really look at what it meant for me.
First, I grabbed my birth chart. You need your exact birth time, date, and place for this, or it’s all just guesswork. I used one of those free online calculators, plugged in my info, and boom – there it was. My chart showed Neptune chilling right in my 7th house.
What the Heck Does That Even Mean?
Next, I started researching. I read a bunch of articles and forum posts. It seemed like Neptune in the 7th is all about relationships – partnerships, marriage, close friendships, even business partners. But it’s not all sunshine and roses. Neptune can bring a dreamy, idealistic vibe, which can also mean… illusions and, well, sometimes straight-up delusion.
I noticed a pattern in my own life. I tend to idealize people, especially romantic partners. I put them on a pedestal, see them as perfect, and then… crash. Hard. When the reality sets in, and I realize they’re just, you know, human, it’s always a shock.
My Little Experiment
So, I decided to do a little experiment. I picked one of my closest relationships – my best friend, Sarah. We’ve known each other forever, and I’ve always felt this super strong connection with her. It’s almost felt… cosmic, you know?
- I started by journaling about our friendship. I wrote down all the amazing things about her, all the reasons why I value her so much.
- Then, I forced myself to be brutally honest. I listed out her flaws, the things that annoy me, the times she’s let me down. It felt kind of mean, but I knew I had to do it.
- I then spent a whole day with her, like I normally always would.
- I tried to see her as a whole person, both the good and the “bad.” I paid attention to how I reacted to her, what triggered me, what made me feel grateful.
The Results (So Far…)
It was… interesting. I didn’t have some huge epiphany or anything, but I started to see things a little differently. I realized I often gloss over her less-than-perfect qualities, focusing only on the stuff that fits my “ideal” image of her. I had ignored them.
I’m still processing it all, to be honest. It’s not like I suddenly see her in a completely new light, but I’m more… aware. I’m trying to be more conscious of my tendency to idealize, and to appreciate her for who she actually is, flaws and all. It’s a work in progress, for sure. This whole Neptune thing is definitely something I’m going to keep exploring.
