Okay, so I’ve been diving deep into astrology lately, like really deep. And I stumbled upon this whole “7th house Aquarius” thing and was like, “Whoa, that sounds kinda like me, or at least, like something I should explore.” So, I started digging.
My 7th House Journey
First, I needed to figure out if I even had Aquarius in my 7th house. I used one of birth chart calculator, It might took me a couple of tries to get all my info right (seriously, who remembers their exact birth time?).
Boom! Turns out, Yep, Aquarius is chilling right there in my 7th house. Which, from what I gathered, is all about partnerships, relationships, and the kind of energy you attract in those areas.
Then came the research binge. I started with simple google, you know, “7th house Aquarius meaning”. I probably spent hours just reading through different websites. It was a lot of info, some of it conflicting, some of it making total sense.
Here’s the gist of what I understood, at least how I’m interpreting it for myself:
- It’s about unconventional relationships. Not necessarily romantic, but any kind of partnership. Could be business, creative, friendships, you name it.
- It’s about needing freedom. Like, a lot of freedom. I definitely resonated with that. I’ve always hated feeling boxed in.
- Intellectual connection is key. This one hit hard. I can’t stand small talk. I need someone I can really talk to, someone who gets my weird ideas.
- It’s about attracting unique individuals. I kind of saw this pattern in my own life. I don’t really do “normal” relationships, and I tend to connect with people who are a little quirky, independent thinkers.
So, after gathering all of the data,I looked at my past relationships, I started to see a pattern. The ones that worked best were the ones where we had this amazing intellectual connection, where we could talk for hours about anything and everything. And the ones that crashed and burned? Usually, it was because I felt suffocated, like the other person was trying to control me or mold me into someone I wasn’t.
Then I did a practical experiment, I decided to try and be more mindful of the kind of energy I was putting out there. I focused on being more open to unconventional connections, on valuing intellectual stimulation, and on embracing my own need for independence.
It’s still a work in progress. But I can definitely say that understanding this little piece of my astrological chart has helped me be more aware of my relationship patterns. It’s like having a little cheat sheet to understanding myself and the kind of people I vibe with. I’m still figuring it all out, but it’s been a pretty cool journey so far.
