My Run-in with Mercury Square Mars
Alright, let’s talk about this Mercury square Mars thing. I started paying attention to these planetary aspects, not in a super deep way, just noticing patterns. And this one? Yeah, I’ve got some stories from when it’s been active.
I remember one period quite vividly. I was working on a project with a couple of other folks. Usually, we get along fine, maybe some minor disagreements, but nothing major. But during this particular week, things felt… sharp. Edgy.
The Buildup
It started small. I’d send an email, trying to be clear, but someone would take it the wrong way. Or I’d be explaining something, and instead of listening, the other person would jump in, correcting me on some tiny detail that didn’t even matter. My first reaction wasn’t patience, nope. It was instant irritation. Like, really instant.
My mind felt like it was racing, but not in a productive way. More like a hamster wheel. I wanted to get things done fast, push things through. And when someone wasn’t on my exact wavelength, or moving at my speed, it felt like hitting a brick wall. Frustrating.
Things Got Spicy
The peak was during a team meeting. We were discussing a roadblock. I had an idea, maybe a bit half-baked because I was rushing, and I just blurted it out. Someone immediately pointed out the flaws, which was fair, but the way they said it felt like a personal attack. And boy, did I react.
- I snapped back immediately. Didn’t even think.
- My voice got louder than intended.
- I used some pretty blunt language, basically dismissing their concern entirely.
- The whole room went quiet. Awkward.
Looking back, it was classic Mercury (communication) clashing hard with Mars (aggression, action). My words became weapons, and my thoughts were just too impulsive. I wasn’t thinking things through; I was just reacting from a place of frustration and a weird need to be ‘right’ or ‘fastest’.
Sorting Through the Mess
After that meeting, I felt pretty wound up. But also, a bit stupid. That reaction didn’t help anything. It just created bad vibes and probably made the other person feel attacked.
So, what did I do?
First, I had to just cool down. Stepped away from the desk, got some fresh air. Tried to physically shake off that tense energy. Mars needs an outlet, right? Better walking it off than yelling at colleagues.
Second, I thought about the conversation. Like, really replayed it. Where did I go wrong? Mostly in the reaction. The initial idea might have been flawed, but the way I defended it was the real problem. The aggressive tone, the sharp words.
Third, damage control. I went back to the person later, privately. Apologized for snapping. Explained I was feeling stressed about the project deadline but that it wasn’t an excuse for how I reacted. It was uncomfortable, but necessary. Thankfully, they were decent about it.
What I Took Away
This whole experience was a practical lesson. It wasn’t some abstract astrology thing; it was real life showing me how certain energies can play out if I’m not mindful.
Here’s what I started doing when I know this aspect is around, or even just when I feel that specific edgy, argumentative energy bubbling up:
- Pause before speaking: Seriously, just taking one extra second before reacting makes a huge difference.
- Channel the energy physically: Go for a walk, do some quick exercise. Get that Martian energy out in a non-destructive way.
- Double-check communication: Reread emails before sending. Ask myself, “Could this sound harsh?”
- Avoid sensitive topics if possible: If a discussion feels like it could easily turn into a fight, maybe table it for a day when heads are cooler.
It’s not about blaming the planets. It’s about recognizing the potential vibe, seeing how it affects me personally, and then choosing how I want to handle it. Keeping track of these little experiences helps me build that awareness. It’s an ongoing practice, for sure. Sometimes I still slip up, but I get better at catching myself. And that’s the whole point, really. Learning as I go.
