Okay, let’s talk about this Venus in the 4th house thing. I didn’t just read about it, I actually tried to live it, see what happened.
Getting Started
So, I was looking at my birth chart, trying to make sense of it all. Saw Venus sitting there in the 4th house section. People online were saying it meant, like, a really nice home life, maybe getting along super well with family, loving your house, that kind of stuff. Sounded good, almost too good, you know?
First, I just kinda sat with that idea. Thought about my own place, my family. Did it fit? Sort of. I mean, I like my home, sure. Who doesn’t want a comfy place? And family… well, it’s family. We have our moments, good and bad. It wasn’t some perfect picture.
The Actual Practice – Doing Stuff
I decided I wasn’t just gonna nod along. I wanted to do something. See if I could lean into that Venus vibe more consciously. Make things feel better at home.
- Observation Phase: I started paying close attention. What really made me feel good in my living space? Was it the clutter? Definitely not. Was it having people over? Sometimes. I noticed I felt best when things were tidy but also cozy, like with soft blankets or warm lighting.
- Making Changes: So, I started small. I decluttered a corner that always bugged me. Didn’t buy anything fancy, just cleared it out. Then I focused on making the main living area feel more welcoming. Put up some pictures I liked, rearranged the sofa. Simple stuff.
- Family Interactions at Home: This was harder. Instead of just reacting, I tried to initiate more pleasant stuff at home. Suggesting a movie night instead of everyone doing their own thing. Trying to make dinner time a bit more relaxed, less rushed. Actively tried to smooth over little arguments that happened within the house, instead of letting them fester.
- The Direction Thing?: I read somewhere about Venus being linked to the South-East. Honestly, this felt a bit weird, but I figured, why not? I checked the compass on my phone, found the south-east corner of my main room. Didn’t do a major overhaul, but I put a nice plant there and tried to keep that spot looking decent. Didn’t notice a lightning bolt or anything, but it didn’t hurt.
What Happened – The Results (So Far)
It wasn’t magic. Let’s be real. Doing this didn’t suddenly turn my family into a sitcom or my house into a magazine cover.
But I did feel a difference. The house felt calmer, more like my space, a place I genuinely enjoyed being in more. Putting conscious effort into making it pleasant seemed to, well, make it more pleasant. Shocking, I know.
With family, focusing on creating harmony at home seemed to help smooth some edges. We still disagree, life still happens. But making the home base feel more peaceful seemed to give us all a better foundation to deal with stuff. It felt less like escaping from home and more like recharging at home.
Overall, messing with this Venus in the 4th stuff wasn’t about astrology predicting my life. It was more like it gave me a nudge, a focus point. Like, “Hey, maybe pay attention to your home, your roots, how you connect with family in that space.” So I did. And yeah, it seems to be making things a bit better. It’s an ongoing process, really. Just trying to keep that cozy, harmonious vibe going, one day at a time.
