Okay, let’s talk about this whole 7th house Scorpio thing. It’s something that popped up for me a while back, and I’ve spent some real time just… watching it play out. Not like some expert, you know, just me, living life and noticing stuff.
Figuring it Out
So, first off, how did I even land on this? Well, I got curious about my own patterns in relationships. You know how you look back and think, “Huh, there’s a theme here”? That was me. I stumbled onto one of those free chart calculator things online, punched in my details, and bam – Scorpio sitting right there in the 7th house section. Didn’t mean much to me at first, just another label.
Starting to Watch
But I kept it in the back of my mind. I started paying a bit more attention to my partnerships. Not just romantic ones, but close friends, business partners, even people I really didn’t get along with sometimes. The 7th house is supposed to cover all that one-on-one stuff, right? So I just watched. I didn’t try to force anything or analyze too hard initially. I just… observed.
What did I start seeing? Well, things often felt pretty intense. Not necessarily bad intense all the time, but definitely not casual or surface-level. When I connected with someone, whether it was good or bad, it felt like it went deep, fast. There wasn’t a lot of middle ground. It was either all-in or kinda… nothing.
The Patterns I Noticed
Over time, I started seeing clearer patterns emerge from just keeping track in my head and maybe jotting down a few notes here and there:
- Loyalty was huge: Either people were incredibly loyal to me, or I felt a massive need for loyalty from them. And when that trust felt broken? Oof. It hit hard.
- Power stuff: Yeah, this came up. Not always overt fighting for control, but definitely a sense of dynamics. Who had the upper hand? Who was influencing whom? It was often humming beneath the surface in my connections.
- Things got deep: Small talk wasn’t really the main course in my key relationships. We’d end up talking about the heavy stuff, the secrets, the things people usually hide. It felt like relationships were meant to uncover things.
- Transformation vibes: Looking back, my most significant relationships really changed me. Like, fundamentally shifted my perspective or forced me to confront parts of myself I didn’t want to see. It wasn’t always comfortable, but it was definitely transformative. It felt like people came into my life to stir things up and make me grow.
- Possessiveness/Jealousy: Gotta be honest, this showed up too. Both in me sometimes, and definitely in partners I attracted. That feeling of “mine” could get strong. Learning to handle that healthily was a big lesson.
Working Through It
It wasn’t always easy, trust me. Those intense dynamics? They led to some major blow-ups and heartaches along the way. Learning to navigate the power struggles without destroying the connection, learning to trust after feeling betrayed, learning to be vulnerable without feeling totally exposed – that was the real work. It took conscious effort, lots of self-reflection, and sometimes just needing space to figure things out.
I had to learn to set boundaries, communicate more clearly about those deep feelings instead of letting them fester, and understand that true loyalty doesn’t mean control. It was a process, lots of trial and error.
Where I’m At Now
So, after years of just living and watching this 7th house Scorpio placement in action, my take is this: it pushes you towards relationships that are real. They might be challenging, they might dig up uncomfortable truths, but they aren’t shallow. For me, it meant learning that deep connection requires vulnerability, trust has to be earned and maintained carefully, and that the most powerful relationships are the ones that help you transform into a better version of yourself, even if the process is sometimes messy.
That’s just my experience, my practice. It’s what I saw, what I lived. Yours might be different, but that’s the journey I’ve been on with it.
