Okay, here’s my blog post about my experience with the Saturn conjunct Sun synastry aspect:
Alright, folks, gather ’round. I’ve been diving deep into synastry lately, you know, that relationship astrology stuff, and I stumbled upon something that really made me think. It’s this whole Saturn conjunct Sun thing. Let me tell you, it’s been a journey.
So, first, I pulled up the charts. I used this free website and input mine and, well, let’s call him “Mr. Mysterious,” birthdates. Bam! There it was, staring me in the face: Sun conjunct Saturn. My Sun, his Saturn. Tight orb, too. Like, less than 2 degrees.
I started reading up, and initially I was a bit, uh, concerned. Everything was talking about restrictions, limitations, feeling burdened… not exactly the romantic fairytale I was hoping * mentions heavy karmic lessons,feel a sense of responsibility for each other, but also like one person is constantly criticizing or holding back the other.
But I’m not one to back down from a challenge, so I decided to observe our dynamic really, really closely. And you know what? I started to see it.
The Reality Check
- The seriousness: Yeah, it’s there. We don’t always have those light, fluffy conversations. We talk about real stuff, future plans, our insecurities, our past. It can feel heavy sometimes.
- The discipline: He’s incredibly disciplined. Like, ridiculously so. And at first, I found it intimidating. But then I realized…it was rubbing off on me. I started being more organized, more focused on my goals.
- The feeling of support(in a strange way): It’s not always cuddly, “I love you so much” support. It’s more like… he believes in my potential, even when I don’t. He pushes me, sometimes to the point where I’m annoyed, but it’s always because he sees something in me that I don’t always see in myself.
I kept a journal. Yeah, I know, sounds cheesy, but it helped! I’d jot down our interactions, how I felt afterward, any patterns I noticed. It became clear that this wasn’t about him controlling me, but more about him… grounding me. My head’s often in the clouds, dreaming up a million things, and he helps me bring those dreams down to earth and actually do something about them.
The Reframe
My biggest takeaway? I shifted my perspective. Instead of seeing Saturn as this big, bad, restrictive force, I started seeing it as a…well, a sturdy foundation. It’s not always pretty, but it’s solid. And sometimes, that’s exactly what you need.
It wasn’t all * takes effort from both of us. I had to learn to not take his “constructive criticism” so personally, and he had to learn to lighten up a bit and let me be my sometimes-messy self. But it has be done.
So, yeah, Saturn conjunct Sun in synastry? It’s definitely not a walk in the park. It’s more like… climbing a mountain. Challenging, yeah, but the view from the top? Pretty amazing. And, I’m still figuring it out, but I’m starting to think it’s worth the climb.
