Okay, so today I wanted to dive into something that’s been messing with my head and my relationships – Venus square Pluto in synastry. I’ve been seeing this pattern pop up in my charts and the charts of people I’m close to, and let me tell you, it’s been a wild ride.
First, I grabbed my birth chart and the charts of a few close friends and partners, past and present. I use this free online software to do that, nothing fancy. Then I started looking for that telltale square aspect between Venus and Pluto. You know, that little red line connecting the two. It’s not always exact, but even within a few degrees, you can feel it.
Digging into the Details
Once I found the aspect, I started digging. What does this even mean? I pored over a bunch of astrology websites and forums. Basically, it all boils down to intense attraction, power struggles, and a whole lot of emotional drama. Sound familiar? Yeah, it did to me too.
- Intense Attraction: Like, you see the person and you’re just drawn to them. It’s magnetic, almost overwhelming.
- Power Dynamics: One person might feel like they have more control, or there’s this constant push and pull for dominance.
- Jealousy and Obsession:This one’s a biggie. It’s easy to get super possessive and paranoid.
- Transformation: The relationship, no matter how messy, forces you to confront your own shadow self and grow.
I started reflecting on my own experiences. My ex? Huge Venus-Pluto square. The relationship was passionate, all-consuming, but also incredibly volatile. We were constantly fighting for control, and the jealousy was insane. It eventually imploded, but I learned so much about myself and my patterns.
Putting it All Together
I began to see my behavior, and I noticed that every time I found someone very attractive, I behaved the same way over and over again, very dramatic, very emotional, and with a lot of fighting, not the cute or fun type, but the worst and most painful.
I also started to see the patterns of my relatives, and it turns out that many of them also shared the same pattern and were equally dramatic with similar situations.
So, what’s the takeaway? For me, it’s about awareness. Recognizing the Venus-Pluto energy helps me understand why I’m drawn to certain people and why my relationships play out the way they do. It doesn’t magically fix everything, but it gives me a starting point for working through my issues and creating healthier connections.
It is a hard work, but it helps a lot, good luck to me!
