So, I’ve been messing around with this whole astrology thing lately, and let me tell you, it’s been a wild ride. I started digging into my birth chart, you know, the map of the sky when you were born? And I found out that my Moon is in the 7th house. At first, I was like, “Okay, cool, whatever that means.” But then, I started to realize it actually explained a lot about how I am in relationships.
First off, I had to figure out what the 7th house even was. Turns out, it’s all about partnerships, marriage, and one-on-one relationships. And the Moon? That’s your emotions, your feelings, how you react to things on a gut level.
I started by reading a bunch of stuff online. I know, I know, not the most reliable source, but it gave me a starting point. Some articles talked about how having the Moon in the 7th house makes you super caring and understanding in relationships. Others mentioned that it can lead to a lot of mood swings and changes in feelings, especially when it comes to your partner. And a few even said it could mean you make a lot of money with other people. I was like ok, that’s good, right?
Getting deeper into my chart
Then I moved onto learning more. I started reading books, listening to podcasts, anything I could get my hands on. I learned that the 7th house is ruled by Libra and Venus, which are all about balance, harmony, and love. So, having the Moon there kind of amplifies those qualities.
Here’s what I found out about myself:
- I’m a total people person. I thrive in close relationships and feel most comfortable when I have a partner to share my life with. It doesn’t have to be romantic, but having someone to just vibe with is really important to me. I realized that i really hate being alone, like I always need someone to hangout with.
- I’m a bit of a mood ring. My emotions can change quickly, especially when it comes to my relationships. One minute I’m all lovey-dovey, and the next I’m feeling insecure or needy. It’s something I’m working on, trying to find that inner balance. It’s really hard though, one minute I feel great the next I’m crying, so hard to control.
- I have a strong desire for harmony. I hate conflict and will do almost anything to avoid it. This can be a good thing, but it can also mean I sometimes suppress my own needs to keep the peace. I learned that I tend to put other people’s feelings above my own, which is not always a good thing.
Putting it all together
The more I learned, the more I realized how much this placement resonated with me. It was like someone had finally given me a manual for understanding my own emotional needs in relationships.
I started paying more attention to my reactions in different situations. I noticed how I would get anxious when my partner was distant, or how I would go out of my way to make them happy, even if it meant sacrificing my own needs. It was eye-opening, to say the least.
Now, I’m not saying astrology is the answer to everything. But for me, it’s been a really helpful tool for self-discovery. It’s given me a framework for understanding my emotional patterns and how they impact my relationships.
I’m still figuring things out, but I feel like I’m on the right path. I’m learning to communicate my needs more effectively, to set boundaries, and to find that balance between caring for others and caring for myself. It’s a journey, but it’s one I’m excited to be on. It’s not easy to understand yourself, but when you do, it’s pretty cool.
