Okay, so I’ve been messing around with my birth chart again, specifically looking at Chiron in the 7th house. It’s been… interesting, to say the least.
My Deep Dive into 7th House Chiron
First, I pulled up my chart online – you know, the usual free astrology site. I already knew my birth time and place (thanks, Mom!), so I just plugged that in. I’ve done this a million times, but this time I was really focusing on Chiron.
I scrolled down to the little table that lists all the planets and asteroids and which houses they’re in. There it was: Chiron, smack-dab in the 7th house. My 7th house is in Libra, by the way.
So, I started to see all the things about the seventh house. You know, partnerships, relationships, marriage, open enemies, all that jazz. Then I look up Chiron. Wound, healing, teacher… that kind of stuff.
- Combining the two? Oof. It felt like someone punched to me.
My next move was open many tabs, just reading everything about seventh house Chiron. I skipped past the super-technical jargon and focused on the stuff that made sense to me – you know, the real-life examples and stories.
I even jotted down some notes in my journal. Stuff like, “Do I attract wounded people?” and “Am I afraid of commitment because I’m afraid of getting hurt?” Deep, I know.
I talked to my best friend about *’s not really into astrology, but she’s a good listener. It helped just to verbalize my thoughts and feelings.
After all this, what did I actually do? Well, I started paying more attention to my relationship patterns. I noticed I tend to put other people’s needs before my own, classic 7th house Chiron,I think. So, I’m working on setting better boundaries. It’s a process, for sure.
I’m also trying to be more mindful of how I communicate in my relationships. I don’t want to be the “wounded healer” all the time. I want to be a partner, an equal. It’s tough, but I’m getting there, one step at a time.
It is a never-ending journey, and the point to share is I am trying to do that.
