Okay, so I’ve been diving deep into Tarot lately, and I wanted to get a better handle on interpreting specific cards in different contexts. Today, I decided to focus on the 5 of Wands, specifically how it represents feelings. Let me tell you, it was a bit of a bumpy ride!
First, I pulled out my trusty Rider-Waite deck. I just love the imagery on these cards. I spent some time just looking at the 5 of Wands. You know, really observing it. Five guys all waving these big sticks around, kinda chaotic, right? It definitely doesn’t scream “peace and harmony.”
Next, I grabbed my notebook and jotted down some initial thoughts. Things like:

- Conflict
- Competition
- Disagreement
- Strife
- Feeling overwhelmed
Pretty negative, huh? But feelings aren’t always sunshine and rainbows.
Digging Deeper
Then, I started thinking about different scenarios. Like, what if I asked the cards, “How does this person feel about me?” and I pulled the 5 of Wands? My gut told me it wouldn’t be good. Maybe they feel like I’m always arguing with them, or that our relationship is a constant struggle. Or maybe they feel competitive with me, like we’re always vying for the same thing. Ugh.
I also considered the reversed meaning. Sometimes, a reversed card can indicate the internalization of the upright meaning. So, maybe pulling the 5 of Wands reversed could mean someone is feeling internal conflict. They’re battling with themselves, feeling stressed and overwhelmed by inner turmoil.
To solidify my understanding, I did a few practice readings, focusing on questions about feelings. I asked about a friend’s feelings towards a new job, and yep, the 5 of Wands popped up. It made sense – she was feeling really challenged and like she was constantly having to prove herself.

It’s definitely not the happiest card to get when asking about feelings, but it’s a super useful one. The 5 of Wands really highlights those messy, conflicted emotions that we all experience sometimes. It’s a reminder that not every feeling is pleasant, and that sometimes, we (or others) are just feeling the strain of conflict, competition, or inner struggle. I feel like I have a pretty good handle on it now! At least, a better handle than I did before.